Relationship Fridays

  Ten things Men Hate About Women

1. The many irritating questions.A man always hates it when you question every small detail about what he does. To him, it feels like you are getting in his way. Furthermore, sometimes when the man answers it, the woman has another answer brewing up in her head. They complain they never ask those many questions since it usually ends up being an argument.

2. The advice we always ignore. As ladies, we usually tend to come to the man and vent on issues bugging us. For example “Honey, that bitch  always seems to be competing with me in everything I do.” Then the man will give you a simple solution and tell you to confront her about what you feel. What the man dislikes is no matter how many times he listens and offers advice, you always ignore it or do something completely different.

3. Women who are always in that space.Yes, a man will love you, but the fact that he also needs his space we do not understand. They complain that we always want to interfere with that small private space where he needs to be alone. Next time your man needs to go see a football match alone in the pub or have a guy’s night out, let him be.

4. The over emotional woman.Women tend to get emotional over almost everything, as they (men) claim e.g. from when we lose a strand of hair, watch a romantic movie or even break a nail. Men you’ll just have to bear with us on this one.

5. Overdoing the make-up.Women love getting all glammed up for that special date, but here’s the thing, they think the make-up tends to be slightly exaggerated sometimes. A good friend of mine was telling me how he’d prefer his lady without make up. They’ve also accused us women of getting worked up whenever they hint the ‘make up issue’

6. The very many words we use.It’s not a weakness but we women speak a lot. We’ll tell you every little detail about how our day was including who did what, the color of the cup I drank tea from. The man only wants a short summary of like two to three sentences. In case he never asks how w your day was, this might be the reason.

7. Wanting to spend time with your man in all the wrong places.This complaint I’ve heard enough times from the men. They hate women who want to go with them for their handbag shopping, the saloon or force them to spend time with her gals.

8.Trying to change a man. A guy will never want someone who tries to change him now that he’s in a relationship. For example if he’s never on time for a date, he believes that its not you who will change that habit but its they who will decide when to stop it.

9.Miss Independent. Just a week ago, my male friend was telling me he has nothing against independent women, but he hates it when he is no longer needed in the relationship. This is because there tends to be sharing of a role in the i.e there are two men in the relationship instead of one. There is no need for us to act overly independent if we need companionship.

10.The expensive woman .Men will be stunned at how the lady dresses or how much she spends shopping and this might be the reason that attracted him to her at first. Well, as much as we are sometimes too expensive to maintain, the men can go broke all in the name of maintaining her look but later on, they get tired of having to spend more than half of his salary on her. A word of advice for the men, when you think she’s too expensive, you gotta have to up your game brother.