Relationship Fridays With Patt

Ten things women hate about men.

1.Irresponsibility-They say making babies is easy but taking care of them is a task.Im still trying to figure out why men run away from their own flesh and blood.A real man faces a challenge as it comes but a coward runs away from it.
2.Mammas boy-your mother is the best thing that ever happened to your life.No matter how old you are,she still views you as that tiny baby she gave birth to.A time comes when one has ro be independent and not expect her to do some things for you.A man who constantly relies on his mother to help him make small decisions is a turn off to women.
3.Poor grooming-Its very unfair for her to spend hours getting ready to look good for you while you just put in a pair of oldheans and your usual shirt for that special day.Comb your hair well,shave off that untidy looking beard and shape those sideburns.Your outward appearance speaks volumes about you.
4.Forgetfulness-birthdays,anniversaries and valentines occur only once a year.When you forget these days,she interprates that shes not that important to you.Just set up a reminder on your phone or diary to avoid forgeting.
5.The father type-theres a difference between a dad and a boyfriend/husband.As much as psychologists say women choose partners with their daddy's character,they hate it when you start acting like a father to them.
6.You only want one thing-A relationship involves more than just sex.Some women claim that their men treat them like sex objects and this makes them feel unappreciated.This explains why we men are dumped not knowing the reason leading to the breakup.
7.Selective listening-you want to watch Tv and shes initiating a conversation.Choose to ignore her and they'l be an argument,but you cannot afford not to watch your favourite football match.Unfortunately we men cant afford to multi task but pretend to listen to her until our nonverbals sell us off.This really annoys her and makes them hate us.
8.Bad table manners-Your mother ought to have taught you well:always chew food with your mouth closed,avoid belching in public and talking with food in your mouth.Doing all this especially when on a date enbarrasses her and gives off a very bad impression about you.
9.Mr.flirt-Make her feel like shes the only one in the world,like shes the only one you ever loved as Rihanna tells us.Yes,its good to admire but dont stare at another womans behind when your together with your sweetheart,avoid ogling.In addition,never get too flirty with a female friend in her presence,its just not right.
10.Unappreciative-"Its very difficult these men,"women complain.Nothing hurts them more than not noticing the new details on her e.g her new haido,shoes she wore or simply her earings.A simple compliment might hace more positive effect on her than you think,just try it.