Thursday 6 December 2012

Relationship Fridays


 

How to know if your partner is cheating

Relationships are formed through various ways and become stronger with time. People become so close, you would immediately sense if one of you decided to cheat. Cheating is the number one cause of breakups and today I’ll focus on signs to look out for in case you suspect a spouse is cheating. Frequent secret phone calls are always the first thing to watch out for. If before you would even be left with your partner’s phone but now it’s almost a taboo to touch the phone, think twice. When you are in a relationship, there’s no need for your soul mate to go somewhere private just to receive a call. In case this happens, it suggests two things; one is engaging in some criminal activity or they are cheating on you.
A relationship is nurtured by how much time you spend together with your loved one. If you find yourself thinking about how you two rarely spend time with each other because all of a sudden he/she is putting in more time than is normal on work related issues, that’s another sign of cheating. One might be busy once in a while but if it becomes a regular habit don’t ignore it.
A new friend has come into the picture and he/she seems to be giving the new friend more attention. You then think you’re just getting jealous but your intuition suggests it’s more than friendship and you are in denial. Never ignore this sixth sense. Some people having affairs go as far as missing out on your special days e.g. birthday or anniversaries. All these signs I have highlighted are signs of cheating.
Before you go hurling insults at your spouse remember there’s always a reason that led them to behave that way. Confront them and if they admit to have cheated, the solution might not be breaking up especially if it’s the first time they did so.

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